Popular writer and life coach, Solomon Buchi, is faced with severe backlash following claims that his wife is not the most beautiful and intelligent woman.
This comes weeks following his engagement to the love of his life, Arike Adeola, that rocked social media platforms.
Taking to Facebook, Solomon Buchi penned a note to his beloved wife stating his commitment and devotion to their commitment.
“You’re not the most beautiful woman; neither are you the most intelligent woman, but like I’ve chosen to never find perfection in anyone else. I put my gaze on you, and with that commitment, we would mold ourselves for ourselves. Our perfection is in our commitment.
Stating that you’re not the most beautiful/intelligent might sound like it’s not a compliment, yeah? But it’s a realistic base for real love. Acknowledging that my woman isn’t the best, but I’m not looking for the best. I was looking for you and I found you.
There’s no best, there is just someone you choose and see the best in them. This to me is the real love. Not the one that consoles itself in the faux reality that their partner is the most good looking, most intelligent, most successful person in the world. That’s disingenuous and doesn’t give room for love to thrive.
I love you, ayanfe. I’m committed to you. I miss you so much!!! But my love for you is stronger than distance” he wrote.
The lengthy post, however, was met with ridicule as many users of the platform insisted that the post was demeaning.
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