Toke Makinwa appears to have shown support for Tonto Dikeh as the actress continues to drag her ex-husband,Churchill .
Toke who has her fair share of heartbreak when her ex-husband fathered a child with his mistress ,said everyone heals differently .
She is of the opinion that people should be allowed to grieve how they deem fit.
In Toke’s case,she put her pen to paper and released a bestseller,”Unbecoming”.
She wrote
We are all tested differently, broken differently, our scars fade differently and we heal different. Everyone should be allowed to grieve how they want, when they want and however long they want to. Stop giving expiry dates to the pain you did not endure. If you cannot be kind, say nothing. It’s ok to be quiet, try it sometime, you won’t die. You don’t have to understand everyone’s journey or life’s choices but it’s your duty to respect it. Life visits us all at the end of the day and while you play judge let’s hope when it’s your turn, you remain standing to handle it half as strong or as perfect as you try to claim be. #fridayinspiration #Judgenot #Bekind 
Emeh Achanga,the CEO of the Miss Petite Nigeria Brand is a lawyer turned blogger. She is very passionate about writing, with several publications and awards to her credit .She is currently working on publishing a collection of short stories which are basically a memoir about her exciting true experiences.
