Peeshaun,one half of popular Nigerian music group, Skuki has been dishing out relationship advise to ladies for a while .
The singer turned motivational speaker shared ten reasons why a lady shouldn’t call a man to talk about a failing relationship.
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You both got close, and all of a sudden he starts cooling off. 30 missed calls later, constantly leaving your watsapp msgs on ‘read’… and you still want to call him to talk about it? HERE ARE 10 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULDN’T
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1) The signs don’t lie. If a man values you, he wouldn’t be treating you this way.
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2) It’s up to you to make him respect and value you, but chasing him up and down is not the way to go about it.
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3) The MORE YOU TALK, THE LESS HE HEARS- You’ve asked all the questions, given all the explanations. It’s no longer about what you say, it’s now about what you don’t say.
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4) WORDS MEOW, ACTIONS ROAR – Your actions would reinforce your value more than your words ever would.
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5) He’s feeding his ego off your desperation- LEAN BACK!
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6) You’re not wrong for falling for him, but you’ll be careless if you keep on falling after all his nonchalant vibes.
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7) Stop getting excited ‘too quickly’ when he calls out-of-the-blue, he just wants you on his heels again.
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8) Now you’re thinking, maybe you just love him too much- NOPE! YOU DON’T LOVE HIM TOO MUCH, YOU JUST LOVE YOURSELF TOO LITTLE.
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9) IT’S NOT EASY, I know. But he is not your problem. Falling for him is not your problem. Your problem is that little voice in your head that’s not saying the right things.
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10) DON’T BE SCARED TO FACE REALITY and whatever it brings. It is never as painful as your fears make you think it’ll be. Grab the bull by the horns, your-future-self would thank you for it.
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#THECODE #GIRLCODE #PGGC .
Emeh Achanga,the CEO of the Miss Petite Nigeria Brand is a lawyer turned blogger. She is very passionate about writing, with several publications and awards to her credit .She is currently working on publishing a collection of short stories which are basically a memoir about her exciting true experiences.
