A Kenyan heiressAnerlisa Muigai, has some relationship advice for ladies.
According to Muigai, who is heiress to Keroche Breweries, insecure women need to stop monitoring their partners with the thoughts that they will cheat on them.
She wrote on IG;
“LADIES A PIECE OF ADVICE. I AM NOT AN EXPERT IN RELATIONSHIPS BUT I’LL ADDRESS TWO ISSUES THAT STRESS WOMEN. IF YOU WANT PEACE AND HAPPINESS, PLEASE LET YOUR MAN BE. THIS CALLING YOUR MAN EVERY MINUTE BECAUSE HE IS OUT OF YOUR SIGHT NEEDS TO STOP. CALL HIM ONLY IF IT’S URGENT. YOU SHOULD NEVER LACK SLEEP BECAUSE HE LEFT AT 7PM AND BY 4AM HE IS NOT BACK, HE IS A GROWN ASS MAN WHO IS FULLY AWARE OF WHAT TIME HE SHOULD GET BACK. ON THE OTHER HAND, HIS PHONE SHOULD BE NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. YOU NEED TO TRUST YOUR MAN, YOU CANNOT STOP A MAN FROM CHEATING. THE MORE HE FEELS NAGGED THE MORE HE WANTS YOU OUT OF HIS SIGHT. THOSE WHO SAY THAT YOUR MAN WILL CHEAT ON YOU, I ALWAYS ASK THEM ” SO SHOULD WE CALL A PRESS CONFERENCE AND ADDRESS THE ISSUE?”NKT . IT SHOULD REALLY BE NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS,” SHE WROTE IN PART.
“PUT YOURSELF FIRST, LOVE YOURSELF, RESPECT YOURSELF AND EVERYTHING ELSE SHOULD BE LAST. NEVER STRESS YOURSELF BECAUSE OF A MAN, IF ONE RELATIONSHIP FAILS THEN OFF TO THE NEXT ONE. HAVE PEACE OF MIND AND RELAX. THE ONLY THING THAT SHOULD EVER STRESS YOU ARE YOUR CHILDREN AND WORK.”
Its very true but very few people know this. when you are all over a man or woman, it creates angered between both parties.