*Most Men won’t like this ..Well* Yesterday, I had a movie date with my close friend in Lekki,Lagos.Since we were early, we took some time to checkout people and just gist in general.As usual, our conversation delved towards the issue of marriage .
Emeh, as I stand now, I really don’t care about marriage ,Men are just not worth it “.She said
I agreed with her .In recent times,I have come to doubt the existence of true love and it has nothing to do with my personal experiences .
As we sat chatting,we watched a few cute couples pass by, some holding hands,others just walking while keeping a reasonable distance..Some looked inlove, others not so much.And not forgetting those husbands who secretly winked at us while with their wives..smh
Then we saw this stunning couple and their daughter.At that moment,all our negative ideas about marriage took the back seat.They were just so perfect , young and looked so inlove ..They were rocking matching denim…As we kept showering praises on this couple..It hit me! They looked really familiar ….Yes,I remember this couple …This man…The ghost from my past which won’t go away.One experience which left me scarred and scared of the thing called marriage …This was the guy from my past ..
Now, this is the experience which changed my mentality ..
In 2011,there was this newly wed couple on my friend’s street .They were the envy of many.He was rich and she was pregnant of British/Nigerian origin .They lived in a duplex next to my then friend’s home .From my friend’s bedroom, you could have a clear view of their house.Because it was low and my friend’s room was high upstairs,it became a habit to spy on the couple we admired so much.
Every evening ,say 7pm,he would return from work and his pregnant wife would be waiting for him to get his bag and give him a kiss.Despite being pregnant, she was always rocking the sexiest outfits ever..
So, on most occasions when I went to stay at her place,we had a clear view of their house from the window..(peepers)On weekends, they would go to the gym,. they would take a walk..
They were the perfect couple.I wanted a husband like him.They had recently employed a housemaid.This housemaid who was always unkempt was always running errands to the market .She happened to be sleeping with my friend’s own security guy.We had caught her severally,sneaking into his room when her madam sent her on errands..Infact, she was reportedly sleeping with most of the the male helps/security guys on the street ..
One faithful evening, thanks to PHCN,there was a blackout .I was in bed while my friend went to open her bedroom window.. Suddenly,she called out to me
Emeh Emeh,come come and see..our favorite couple
I rushed over to the window and saw the husband get down from his car and as was the tradition,his beautiful,sexy wife rushed out,kissed him on the lips,they talked for some seconds and she called out ,suddenly the maid appeared,running towards them.
He opened the car boot and looked like he bought alot of provisions..So, the maid starting carrying them from the boot to the house..
Then his wife ,took his bag,and went indoors…As she left, the maid emerged from the house,went over to the car booth..
Show over, I was just about to move away from the window when it happened..Suddenly, this man dashed over to the maid who was still at the booth removing things and placing on the floor, he lifted her skirt and rammed into her..Like literally)
It happened so fast that my brain couldn’t comprehend what my eyes were seeing..
What the hell! Can you see that ?My friend said in shock
OMG this guy is …
Sleeping with the maid …My friend finished up my sentence
I must have been hallucinating ..Because it was dark and the angle he parked ,his booth was close to the other edge of the fence, we couldn’t see clearly,but what was going on was clear to see, he was having sex with his maid who sleeps with the whole street, under the nose of his stunning wife …He didn’t even use protection.
..It must have taken 30 seconds of ramming into the maid when his wife appeared at the door,probably wondering why her darling husband had taken so much time outside..He quickly pulled down his shirt ,picked up one of the bags,rushed over to her,kissed her on the lips and lifted her up as they disappeared inside..
The maid was still adjusting her skirt behind the booth..pretending to drop the provisions on the floor
We must have stood by the window for 5 minutes without uttering a word…We were beyond speechless.
About one minute later, he emerged, handed something (probably money) to the maid and dashed back inside ..
At that was the end..From that day,I never looked at any couple the same ever..But they went on,acting so inlove and he would pass by his maid with a disgusting sneer..Like she was filth .But we knew,behind closed doors,this beautiful woman was married to a disgusting cheat!
I hear women say, take care of your man, feed him pamper him,make love to him whenever he pleases and he wouldn’t cheat..
Sorry to burst your bubble..A man who would cheat would cheat..If you like,monitor him 2/47,feed him,make love to him 300 times daily,be the most beautiful woman in the world..If you are unfortunate to be with an unfaithful man,there is nothing you can do about it.(BUT WALK)
However, there are still men who don’t cheat.Men who can’t stand it.(SHOUT OUT TO THOSE RARE MEN)